True success is about satisfying your spirit with spirit things.
I was reading Karen Salmonsohn's book How to be Happy, Dammit! and life lesson #40 had that line in it. And it just jumped off the page at me. I've been so wrapped up in my life, trying to find a new job that paid me more money, so that I could be more, ahem, successful in my life....
Boy am I wrong!
It's not the money that makes a person happy. I go shopping constantly, trying to get something new that helps me feel happy... and I'm like a child. I play with it once or twice, and never touch it again. Eff!!!!!
I spent last Monday doing things that I enjoyed by myself... for FREE! I went geocaching, and finally found one that's been bothering me for a while now. I drove with the windows rolled down, the music cranked up, belting out the lyrics at the top of my lungs. And I felt so refreshed!
Last weekend was the best weekend I've had in a really long time. I spent time at a friend's house, chatting with people that I never really get to talk to intimately, and played Apples to Apples! I went to the salon and got a haircut after a year of not having one! I picked up some sale items at Hobby Lobby for my smash book. I met some new people at Barnes & Noble, and found a great connection with them.
Life is good! I am satisfying my spirit with spirit things. Instead of spending money, and trying to fill the void with material things, I am working on being the best person that I can possibly be. I am doing what I need. I am spending time alone, and loving every minute of it. I'm not giving a damn about what people think. I could care less. I'm happy. For the first time in... a really long time... Like since I was a kid.
I am truly, honestly, ecstatically happy.
And I don't give a damn :)
Do something that satisfies your spirit without spending a dime.
-R.
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